We have all grown up believing that we are best loved and understood by our parents.That they understand our needs more than anyone in the world,which I absolutely agree with.However,one thing that we are never told,
something that we never realise until much later in life is that our parents,they are human too.They have their flaws too.At times,they will ignore as too.At times,they will get irritated by our complaints.At times,even they will judge us for our life choices.At times,even they will not be there to back you up,to support you when you most need it and that to me,is why we get hurt so bad when we go through that.With time,I have realised a fact that as you grow,you develop into a person that is different from the offspring your parents probably envisioned they would have.You get opinions that are quite different to theirs.Your parents might not realise it and you might not realise it either.However,deep down they judge you too.No doubt they have an immense amount of love for you in their hearts,they are the closest someone can be to loving you unconditionally.No one in the entire loving you unconditionally.No one in the entire world is ever going to love you like your parents.No one can.But I wonder if some facts should be taught to children at an early age in a subtle way.Facts like how the only person in the world who can understand you the best is you yourself only.Your mother,your father even with their immense amount of love for you will not understand you at times.That parents are humans,they are also biased towards certain things.That when you’ve hit rock bottom,when you are at the lowest point in your life,when you feel like giving up,when you feel like everything is going wrong around you,it is actually only you who is going to be there for you.Only you are the one who is going to be there to take care of you.Only you who is ever going to understand what you are going through.Your parents can only try.They can only try to understand what you are going through,to cheer you up,to make you feel better.But with time,even they can get exhausted and give up on you.Even they can leave you in that darkness.At those times,it is you who has to rebound.Who has to get back ue.You miaht not be findina enouah strenath exhausted and give up on you.Even they can leave you in that darkness.At those times,it is you who has to rebound.Who has to get back up. You might not be finding enough strength but always remember,we are all fighting only for ourselves in the end. You will have to find the strength otherwise the burdens of this world might just crush you.You are important for yourself. You are the person you need the most.Make some time for yourself. Try to love yourself. Atleast TRY to! Because in the end, you matter.ln the end, you are important. Maybe not for the world, but for you. You need you. And your parents too actually, despite their occasional exhaustion/frustration(They are also only human), they will still always care for you more than anyone else in the world can.